As a mother to three beautiful, blonde-hair, blue-eyed ladies AND super proud bonus-mom to three more (two daughters and a son), I personally take this role the most serious one in my life. Afterall, I am responsible for raising strong, confident, successful humans.
Many people who truly know me would say that my heart is my biggest asset. But giving love isn’t enough. Raising the expectations to be more, to do more, to dream and act more…I strive for this daily.
The world has changed so much since I was a child. We worry now about the economy, competition for the best jobs, health, the environment and overall happiness. I want most for my children is CONFIDENCE. Confidence that there are capable of anything they want to achieve, to be, to do, to dream. And although my natural instinct is to protect and nurture my children, I have realized that what they need to see is fight, tenacity, leadership. To know that their mom is always in their corner with love and a hug, but as a pillar of strength and determination.
Self confidence for young girls is directly linked to their self-image. Inside – but also on the outside. My daughters are all “tweens” and they all love beauty (well…maybe only two). So despite my attempts to keep them out of my makeup drawer, there are a few products they can start to use early on that will have them (and you) smiling and creating self-love the beauty way:
Shower & Shampoo: Hair does not have to be washed daily as this can induce flaking of the scalp, itching and removal of the natural oils.There is no harm in bathing every day, but it is more sensible to wash the hair every other day, using a frequent use shampoo. Choose one without Sodium Lauryl Sulfate. SLS is a “moderate hazard” that has been linked to cancer, neurotoxicity, organ toxicity, skin irritation and endocrine disruption. No need for that with so many better alternatives!
Fluoride Free Toothpaste:A recent study found that two out of every five adolescents in the U.S. have dental fluorosis, meaning too much fluoride. Not to mention, there are many other side effects linked to fluoride that are being published today! Keep it safe with a fluoride free option.
Never too early to start washing your face: Start with something calm and simple. Wash off the days dirt and oil with a gentle cleanser.
Deodorant: Puberty in girls can begin as early as 8 years old. Keep them as pure as can be by choosing a natural deodorant.
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